pernah x korg dipaksa utk buat something yg korg x suka ?
lebih kurg mcm paksa rela la...
kne paksa ngan member utk buat nir, buat tu...
korg mmg x nk buat..tp korg tetap buat jgk...
KENAPA ??????????????? WHY ?
nak taw knp..meh cnie bgtaw knp..
- KORG NIE SUKA MENOLONG - korg nie baik hati sgt...korg x nk sakit kan hati org tu..wlupown bnda yg korg buat tu akan amek mse korg..
- TAK NAK JADI KURANG AJAR - korg dah di didik klu ckp kat 'NO' kat org yg lg tua tu kurang ajar...pemikiran yg mcm nie mmg biasa utk budaya org Asia. Menjaga maruah adalah penting...tp itu tak bermakna berkata 'NO' tu menjatuhkan maruah org...
- TERPAKSA BERKATA 'YES' - ye, awk terpaksa ckp 'yes'..sbbnya klu x ckp yes, korg takowt kwn2 korg nie x nk kwn ngan korg dah ....
- TAKUT KONFLIK - takut sekiranya awk ckp NO, akan berlakunya konflik ngan member awk tu smpai x bertegur laaa...
SIMPLE WAY HOW TO SAY NO
- Say this to ur fren ..“I can’t commit to this as I have other priorities at the moment.”
- “Now’s not a good time as I’m in the middle of something. How about we reconnect at X time?”
- “I’d love to do this, but …”....pandai2 la korg bg alasan erk...
- “Let me think about it first and I’ll get back to you.”
- “This doesn’t meet my needs now but I’ll be sure to keep you in mind.”
- “I’m not the best person to help on this. Why don’t you try X?”...suggest kan la nama sape2 pown...jgn smpai di jadikan kambing hitam sudey...
- dan yang palaing penting...“No, I can’t.”
sekian, terima kasih...
-eita bullah-
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